Well of Oaths

So Abraham got up early in the morning and took bread and a skin of water, and gave them to Hagar, putting them on her shoulder, and gave her the boy, and sent her away. And she departed and wandered about in the wilderness of Beersheba.
Genesis 21:14 (NASB)

Beersheba means “the well of oaths.” The way we see it in Genesis 21 shows us the difference between God and man.

Abraham makes no covenant with Hagar. He sends her off with bread and water, and though he is worried about his son Ishmael, he makes no promise to them.

Get up, lift up the boy, and hold him by the hand, for I will make a great nation of him.
Genesis 21:18 (NASB)

In the wilderness of Beersheba, God meets Hagar and makes an oath to her: to make Ishmael a great nation. This promise is similar the one made about Isaac.

Immediately afterwards, we see Abraham take an oath and make a covenant with Abimelech, king of Gerar and with the commander of Abimelech’s army. With the rich and the powerful.

He said, “You shall take these seven ewe lambs from my hand so that it may be a witness for me, that I dug this well.” Therefore he called that place Beersheba, because there the two of them took an oath. So they made a covenant at Beersheba; and Abimelech and Phicol, the commander of his army, got up and returned to the land of the Philistines.
Genesis 21:30-32 (NASB)

Perhaps we are meant to learn that our oaths should be made to protect the weak and the lowly, as that is where God dwells. But instead, we are inclined to make covenant only with those who can benefit ourselves.

Who is Your Father?

Now Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, mocking Isaac. Therefore she said to Abraham, “Drive out this slave woman and her son, for the son of this slave woman shall not be an heir with my son Isaac!”
Genesis 21:9-10 (NASB)

There is a story in the Midrash that paints a sweeping narrative that creates context for these two verses. It starts back in the previous chapter, when Sarah is taken by Abimelech.

So Abraham prayed to God; and God healed Abimelech, his wife, and his female servants. Then they bore children; for the Lord had closed up all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife.
Genesis 20:17-18 (NKJV)

Remember: the healing that happens in that chapter is related to childbirth.

Based on this childbirth-related healing, and then the birth of Isaac in chapter 21, the rabbis suggest that rumors began to spread. Perhaps this son of Sarah is no son of Abraham, but instead is a son of Abimelech. The timing is right, and clearly, Abimelech’s wife and “female servants” are all pregnant.

While we, the readers, are told that God prevented Abimelech from touching Sarah, who knows if the people in the story, to include Abraham’s whole entourage, believe it?

And most importantly, does Hagar believe it? She has witnessed Abraham and Sarah’s frequent deception first-hand.

So the rabbis say this: “the prattle of children reflects what they picked up from their father or what they picked up from their mother.” If Ishmael is “mocking” Isaac (and not abusing, per another interpretation of the story), perhaps the mockery is this: “Everyone knows Abraham is my father. Who is your father?

And Sarah, hearing this, would know that these are Hagar’s words, and that Hagar would be making a clear statement about inheritance: Only the son of Abraham should receive any portion of Abraham’s blessing and wealth.

Perhaps this is why Sarah declares, “the son of this slave woman shall not be an heir with my son Isaac!”

Prayer for Sarah

So Abraham prayed to God; and God healed Abimelech, his wife, and his female servants. Then they bore children; for the Lord had closed up all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife.
Genesis 20:17-18 (NKJV)

Abraham’s prayer at the end of Genesis 20 should surprise the reader, because his own wife is barren. It is meant to be ironic.

The rabbis have a saying about prayer: if you earnestly pray for someone who has a need, but you also have that need, God answers your need first.

And the Lord visited Sarah as He had said, and the Lord did for Sarah as He had spoken.
Genesis 21:1 (NKJV)

The “And” in Genesis 21:1 is meant to link this text to the end of Genesis 20 to show God answering this prayer for Sarah.

Plague of Barrenness

Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech and his wife and his female slaves, so that they gave birth to children. For the Lord had completely closed all the wombs of the household of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife.
Genesis 20:17-18 (NASB)

Sarah was barren, and the consequence to Abimelech and his household was also a kind of barrenness. God “closed the wombs” of everyone in the land.

Here, when it says “because of Sarah,” the words are literally “at Sarah’s word.

This happened back in Genesis 12, too; the plagues on Pharaoh may have been through Sarah’s spoken word.

Covering of the Eyes

Then to Sarah he said, “Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver; indeed this vindicates you before all who are with you and before everybody.” Thus she was rebuked.
Genesis 20:16 (NKJV)

The Hebrew phrase that is translated as “this vindicates you” here is כְּסוּת עֵינַיִם, which means “a covering of the eyes.

The meaning is debated among the rabbis, but Chizkuni’s interpretation seems to be the best.

There is sarcasm in the words.

Per tradition, it is proper to give a great gift to the brother of a bride. In Genesis 24:53, we read Eliazar gave precious gifts to Rebecca’s brother and her mother.

So Abimelech’s statement, “your brother,” is meant to nod to the tradition, even though he knows it’s not true.

In that context, “a covering of the eyes” is like “turning a blind eye.”

The word “rebuked” at the end is also difficult to translate, as it can mean both “rebuked” but also “cleared” or “shown to be right.” Perhaps it’s both, as the matter is dropped after Abraham prays for healing.

You are my Brother

So when God made me wander from my father’s house, I said to her, ‘Let this be the kindness that you shall do me: whatever place we come to, say there of me: He is my brother.’”
Genesis 20:13 (The Contemporary Torah, JPS, 2006)

I don’t typically take single verses and disconnect them from their context, but I can’t help but notice the sweetness in this thing Abraham says.

To shield me from harm, your kindness is to call me “brother.”

May we all hold this notion close to our heart. May we love one another.

Erasing Iscah

Some theological disagreements are fun, as they demonstrate creative but faithful interpretations. For example, in the Jewish teachings, there is talk about the kind of fruit that was on the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. Perhaps it was a fig, tied to the fig leaves that Adam and Eve used to cover themselves. Perhaps it was more like wheat, because a child only gains reasoning and the capacity to defy their parents when they’re old enough to eat wheat. Again – creative, but not consequential. (In any event, the fruit wasn’t an apple).

But some disagreements are hard.

What do you think of Abraham? Is he generally good with some dark stains, or is he generally flawed with some bright spots? Where you land on this opinion shapes how you interpret what happens in Genesis 20.

Besides, she actually is my sister, the daughter of my father, but not the daughter of my mother; and she became my wife.
Genesis 20:12 (NASB)

Is he telling the truth here, or is he still being deceptive with Abimelech? Is this a right explanation, or is it clear that he was simply covering his lie?

What is the consequence of your conclusion? Who does it impact?

I’ll tell you.

How you answer “is Abraham telling the truth” impacts a woman named Iscah.

Now these are the records of the generations of Terah. Terah fathered Abram, Nahor, and Haran; and Haran fathered Lot. Haran died [a]during the lifetime of his father Terah in the land of his birth, in Ur of the Chaldeans. Abram and Nahor took wives for themselves. The name of Abram’s wife was Sarai, and the name of Nahor’s wife was Milcah, the daughter of Haran, the father of Milcah and Iscah. Sarai was unable to conceive; she did not have a child.

Now Terah took his son Abram, and Lot the son of Haran, his grandson, and his daughter-in-law Sarai, his son Abram’s wife, and they departed together from Ur of the Chaldeans to go to the land of Canaan; and they went as far as Haran and settled there. The days of Terah were 205 years; and Terah died in Haran.
Genesis 11:27-32 (NASB)

Iscah (which is where we get the name Jessica) is mentioned once in all of scripture. According to Genesis 11, she is Milcah’s sister, and Haran’s daughter. This would make her Abraham’s niece.

The sages looked this passage with intense curiosity, because verse 29 is written so strangely. It’s worded in such a confusing way, it’s almost fitting that the passage is given to us right after the Tower of Babel. It’s hard to follow. But Iscah is sitting there, looking into the future. Her name means “one who looks forth,” and some wonder if she was a prophetess.

And so a rabbi makes a statement that some disagree with, but it’s recorded in the commentaries as something to ponder:

“Iscah is Sarai.”

This statement holds true if Abraham is deceiving Abimelech. But if Abraham is actually being fully truthful (she is my sister; she is the daughter of my father), Iscah vanishes, because Iscah is not the daugther of Abraham’s father Terah, but the daughter of Abraham’s brother Haran.

Iscah simply disappears with no explanation. She dies without a word. But if Abraham is deceiving Abimelech, Iscah can be Sarah, and she lives on.

In the same way our perceptions shape our reality, our theologies do the same.

In this case, they can erase entire lives.

Caught in a Lie

Besides, she actually is my sister, the daughter of my father, but not the daughter of my mother; and she became my wife;
Genesis 20:12 (NASB)

When you read this plainly, it appears that Abraham and Sarah are half-siblings. However, the Hebrew is full of people using familial words to describe both close and more-distant relationships.

Much later, we’ll see that Jacob refers to his “father Abraham,” but he is talking about his grandfather, so this feels legitimate.

Then Jacob said, “God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, Lord, who said to me, ‘Return to your country and to your relatives, and I will make you prosper,’
Genesis 32:9 (NASB)

So is Abraham really being honest here?

In a previous post, I said Sarah is described oddly at the top of the chapter; we can link the Abraham->Sarah relationship with Israel->Ark, where the ark is merely being used for victory. A stolen blessing.

Look closely at this next instance of misrepresentation to gain a blessing…

Jacob said to his father, “I am Esau your firstborn; I have done as you told me. Come now, sit and eat of my game, so that you may bless me.
Genesis 20:19 (NASB)

Motivated by Fear

And Abimelech said to Abraham, “What have you encountered, that you have done this thing?” Abraham said, “Because I thought, surely there is no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.
Genesis 20:10-11 (NASB)

In Hebrew, Abimelech actually asks “מָ֣ה רָאִ֔יתָ,” which means “What did you see?”

Abraham’s response is often written as “I thought,” but it is אָמַ֗רְתִּי, which actually means “I said,” which means he told his people.

Notice that Abraham never actually answers Abimelech’s question. Perhaps he didn’t actually see anything. He was simply afraid.

Rebuke

Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, “What have you done to us? And how have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and on my kingdom a great sin? You have done to me things that ought not to be done.” And Abimelech said to Abraham, “What have you encountered, that you have done this thing?”
Genesis 20:9-10 (NASB)

One of the most important lessons I had to learn as a Christian is that being “a believer” did not mean that I had the moral high ground.

It meant that I had to understand that I was morally accountable for my actions towards everyone.

Abraham is rightly rebuked.